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Exploring my kinks (Safe/Discreet)

Sub Male (35) looking for Dom male Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Would like to do more exploring on the kinks/fetishes I'm interested in.
Only interested safe play. Discretion is also important to me too.
Not into stuff like hard punishments or anything intense and degrading like that.

-What I'm interested in-

-Bondage/Restraints/Suspen sions:
Hog tie, legs spread up, sleepsack, plastic wrap/tape, self-bondage, etc..
-Hypnosis:
Self-hypnos is. Experience in-person hypnosis.
-Machine: Milking / Penetration / Edging / Nogasm
-Remote-control vibrator butt plug

Other things I'm into: cuddling, mutual jerk off, edging, nipple play, sucking nipples, etc.

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferBottom
I'm aChubby Chaser
DemeanorAverage

Appearance

EthnicityBlack
BuildMuscular
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionSkin conditions
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thin
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Empathy, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchTops/Doms that:
-Are Mature, Patient, Gentle, Caring, Easy-going, Affirmative
-Doesn't mind a quiet and passive Sub that let's them control the scene mostly.
-Respect limits and doesn't mind a Sub having a lot of them.
-Are not looking for anything serious or long term.
-Love making their Sub feel good, moan, etc. by their actions. Making their bottom moan is one of their primary drives.

Older/Younger dynamics (Lil Bro/Big Bro, Dad/Son, etc.):
I have a strong preference for guys older than me, even if it's only one year (My age is fine too).
Taller guys or bigger guys are a plus, combination of the two even more.
EthnicityNo preference
Body typeA few extra pounds, Athletic / toned, Average, BBW/BHM, Bodybuilder, Curvy, Fit, Heavyset, Muscular, Stocky, Thick, Voluptuous, Other

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasNot BDSM, but this was my most pleasurable: Was with a guy that was mainly aroused by making me feel good. The encounter consisted of only body fondling and anal fingering.

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isNot my thing
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":-Scat, Piss, Blood, Pain, Cages, Collars, Handcuffs, Sensory deprivation, Humiliation/Degradation play, Licking feet, Rimming. (Sucking cock isn't really a limit, but don't really like doing it)
-Anything unsafe and/or dangerous.